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How Many Baboons Could You Take In a Fight — armed only with a giant dildo??? The Oatmeal wants to know.
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Photo caption from The Daily News:
Tiger Woods’ wife Elin Nordegren, pictured during her modeling days, is still beautiful.
From the piece:
“People who have affairs typically do so because something is lacking,” says psychotherapist Stacy Kaiser. “You can be the world’s best golfer, role model and endorsement spokesman and still not feel good inside.”
When that happens, she says, a man tends to “fill that hole with women as a distraction and an escape.”
Unfortunately, some individuals who’ve mastered sports and the art of making money still haven’t managed to master a relationship filled with respect and trust, Kaiser says.
“These men don’t have good coping skills,” she explains. “So when things are rough at home, they go outside the home rather than trying to fix things.
“And the message they send is: I’m putting my energy into someone else’s home and into some other woman.”
Men may also cheat in the belief that it will simplify their lives, Kaiser says. Every marriage, no matter how perfect, has its rough patches and its moments when both spouses are grumpy, nagging or tired.
